The Conflict Of Being You;Little Words Of Advice

Just when you think you've made that choice...life throws you a curve ball.
You see,life is not a bed of roses. If things start getting too easy,you should be worried. Nothing good ever comes easily.
Ever sat down to wonder why everyone wants to study medicine,law,mass communication, journalism, accounting, business administration and the likes of it? I dare you to ask them why. "Its all about the prestige",they say. Even when we are given the freedom to choose,we still find a way to mess it up. The first option on everyone's mind is hardly what makes them happy. Some even pick what they think makes them happy,just because it is factually right and popular. Just a voice following a crowd without knowing it. Others even make choices because they've seen it make others happy and feel it would work out for them as well. Who ever stops to think that one man's food is another man's poison?.
What is your driving force? Pleasure? Desire? Or joy?. You may not be the best right now but the world is not looking for the best. "Leaders are made,not born". The world is interested in seeing what you can create out of yourself, out of mere ashes. It's all about creativity
Don't look down on others and don't rush to the top...you may stumble and miss something on the way. The journey isn't about who finished first,but he who finished well.
Failure? Its not a disease;it only makes you stronger. Words are just words until you put them in action. You may say I don't understand the pain of seeing others so far ahead when you're still struggling with stage one. You'll ask..."what makes them so different?" "Am I that unlucky or just cursed?" My answer to that is that everyone has their own time to shine. Don't be in such a hurry to shine,be happy for those who are already there and work Harder. It hurts a lot but it's better to channel that pain into something useful. Don't let losing or not getting what you want,define who you are.
pray! You are the best definition of you. You are AMAZING. You can STAND OUT. Just BELIEVE. Don't let the words of others determine your actions or future. Don't make anyone god in your life. No matter how famous they are,they are just human.
No one is worth your tears or anger. Stand tall in the face of adversaries. Don't wait for a miracle to happen. Start working on yourself. God hasn't given up on you so don't give up on yourself. There are so many avenues to make it in this world that are not crooked or over publicized. Philosophy, psychology, sociology,education courses,creative arts,etc. These are courses that are highly valuable yet they are horribly belittled. They can take you very far in life. Its never about the course you choose,its what you can make out of that course in a way that no one can

To those who rely on the opinions of friends,the truth of the matter is that things like that will just kill you. Choose that thing because you want it,because it makes you happy. Don't carry a negative spirit around.
Even if others have failed at that thing before,pray and strive to succeed where others failed. Even if you failed at it before,try harder. Let God take the wheel. Don't stop working till you take your last breath...

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