On Forgiveness
Forgiving the person that hurt you ....that's for your peace of mind. By not forgiving the person,you're giving them power over you. You're saying " yes even though you hurt me,I'm always thinking of you,you control my life" . Do you really want that? I know I don't. Forgive that person and move on with your life,that makes you the bigger person. If God could forgive you each time you sin and beg for forgiveness, who are you to turn down your fellow man? What is so unique about you? Why hold a grudge in your heart?. Your ability to forgive the person that hurt you is enough to teach that person a lesson. Vengeance is not yours to give;let God take the wheel. Forgiving the one who hurt you frees your heart. I know of a woman who was able to forgive a man who slaughtered her family before her eyes so what exactly is your problem? Of course,no problem is too small. Don't turn suicidal because someone hurt you. No problem is worth losing your life over....