Diary Of A Phatbulous Girl; Fat Is a Word, Not a Disease

They call her amina the hippo,amina the whale,the mountain that can't move,rolling stone,etc. Enough with the name calling! No one ever deserves to go through such an ordeal,even if they've been mean. Calling her names won't make her change,it only makes you a bad person. Plato once said "a just man should not make an unjust man worse,otherwise he too will become an unjust man". Eventually amina may commit suicide all because her "size" doesn't fit into this world. Who are you to make the rules? What makes you better than her? No life is ever perfect. There's always one imperfection so you have no right to judge another person. Like the bible says,"remove the log in your eyes before you remove the speck in another person's eyes"
Don't use a person's body weight to judge them or damage their self esteem. You have no idea what caused it,what they've gone through or what they're going through.You cant tell what goes through the innermost part of someone's mind. The happiest smiles hide the deepest pain,like they always say.

To the aminas' out there,
Who you are is not defined by your body size or weight. Your weight does not determine your future and who you are going to be. One thing we need to learn is to accept ourselves first the way we are before we think of others accepting us. You don't need to fit in...why not stand out? True beauty is in developing yourself to who you want to be without external interference. No one has the right to tell you to change who you are or how you look. You have the right to define the way you are and if anyone can't accept that, then they don't deserve to be around you. "You're fat" is merely an observation,not a declaration on your life. Having someone call you that doesn't mean you should commit suicide. As long as you're still able to move,eat,live,see and talk,you should be grateful enough to God.
God created YOU and He doesn't create mistakes so feeling sorry for yourself because you're fat means you're saying God doesn't know what he's doing.
The truth of the matter is that its not about how fat how you are. What matters is how you present yourself. Don't become a sloucher because you think you are fat. There are so many big,intelligent and beautiful women out there who are making it in the world such as Oprah Winfrey, Wendy Williams, Queen latifah, Melissa McCarthy,Eniola Badmus,etc. You can be better. Challenge yourself . Its not a crime to be fat but it is a crime to use fat as an excuse not to look presentable.
Finally,don't compare yourself with anyone's body. Learn to love the body you're in now and work on what's within you,waiting to shine. That's all that matters